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Post by divatam5 on Oct 4, 2014 17:30:53 GMT
My x husband still emotionally abuses me as in making me jealous with other women...a little pain is still there it stings it hurts...like I love him...but he terribly hurt me, mental physically and emotionally during 9 year marriage...i divorce in 06, he was in prison he got out after years and has been begging me for sex...i said no because I don't want to get trapped...he has moved on with other woman but he yet playing mind games I rarely have contact with him...i have a son by him, after he sees he can't manipulation and sleep with me, he's showing no interest in my son, that bothers me, also the pain from his past cheating when married is surfacing..should be over this crap
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Post by Sal56 on Oct 14, 2014 14:07:54 GMT
I was with my partner for nearly 5 years and we also have a son togther. I have been split from my partner n have a restraining order against him, i have no contact but through word of mouth i hear numerous stories and see things on facebook about him, he has had a lot of partners since coming out of prison (for assaulting me) one his own age which bothered me but recently i have seen he has a 20 year old gf where he is 33, this as really hurt me and since i have heard its all i have thought about, i can not concentrate and have had nightmares, I was 17 when i got with him and he was 27, i feel that he is doing to that young girl what he did to me, she is vunerable as a hard life and dysfunctional family. So much happened between me and my x partner (losing our child, he is bk with me now thank god, attempted sucuide etc.) and it hurts to think after all that as gone on to think he has not learned a thing and has gone on to do the same thing to someone else using the same tactics. I feel i should also be over this crap to but somehow he is still impacting on my life, i still cant come to terms of what happened. I should be happy that everything is falling in to place but sometimes i still feel empty and think about him. Im not in any way tempted to go back there but to think he hasnt learned or changed one single bit after all that has happened, i cant get my head around. HE MUST BE A MONSTER WHO HAS NO REMORSE.
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