Post by MS on Aug 15, 2014 10:18:50 GMT
So I've moved most of my stuff out and have found a new place. I've told my close friends and family. Everyone's reaction was shock and have said I can't go back. I know it's over. I know I can't go back. But it's hard. I feel so sad and confused. I want to pretend none of it happened. I want him to call and say sorry. I'm scared of a new life and being alone. I'm scared I've picked the wrong place to live. I'm scared of going back to work (on summer holiday at the moment) and having to explain how that my life is completely different now. I'm scared of having to make new friends. I'm scared I'll never meet anyone and I'll end up alone and never have a family of my own.
I gave in and messaged him the other day. I want to see him to say goodbye. We work in the same area and my new place isn't that faraway either so I may bump into him eventually. I may try and explain why I did't want to talk to him and decide together about what we should do but I get the feeling he won't listen. I am leaving town for a week today. He said he was maybe away for work if he could travel. I said if he doesn't want to meet up to just say. He said he did but he had been in A&E and so he was having a shit time. I obviously asked if he was ok and he told me he's been having heart palpitations again and has to have more tests (he's had problems with blood pressure before). He said we'd speak when I was back in town. I said I hope you're ok, get some rest. Of course I was upset. But I'm also angry that now everyone will feel sorry for him which then makes me feel guilty.
I just feel this is all too hard. I guess I'm looking for advice about how to get through this bit.
I gave in and messaged him the other day. I want to see him to say goodbye. We work in the same area and my new place isn't that faraway either so I may bump into him eventually. I may try and explain why I did't want to talk to him and decide together about what we should do but I get the feeling he won't listen. I am leaving town for a week today. He said he was maybe away for work if he could travel. I said if he doesn't want to meet up to just say. He said he did but he had been in A&E and so he was having a shit time. I obviously asked if he was ok and he told me he's been having heart palpitations again and has to have more tests (he's had problems with blood pressure before). He said we'd speak when I was back in town. I said I hope you're ok, get some rest. Of course I was upset. But I'm also angry that now everyone will feel sorry for him which then makes me feel guilty.
I just feel this is all too hard. I guess I'm looking for advice about how to get through this bit.