Post by norma on Jun 21, 2017 1:53:38 GMT
I have so much respect for the people that stay so long. I see if as you are giving up your own life to still try and help some one that makes you feel pain but you still carry on trying because you have that much of a good sole you give up for own happiness to help someone else. I see it as the most strongest thing you can do. But all I can say if you need to be selfish and live your life for your self. Because you only get one life so make it the best it can be even if that's walking away. Because no one should have the power to controle you life an no one should have the stress or guilt to feel that it's there duty to make some a better person. It's down to them to create there own destiny. It's it's down you to make sure you live a happy life. Because none can make you happy but you. You are the only person that has the power to be who ever you want to be. The moment you become selfish an start making your self happy by making every desision for your self you will then find your self around people who will also lift you higher because if you start making the Chose to one be around people that will life you and not use your kindness to use you for there own selfishness you will then live a life filed with people that deserve your time and you will then see that trying so hard to make some one else a better person only makes them more power full to hurt other becaus they then feel it's there duty to use others. It only makes them feel it's there own right that you give up your own life for there selfishness and you will only make them carry on hurting others. If these types of people didn't have you around what would they do they wound only have two chioises make them selves happy or hate life because they think there owed wich is so fare from the truth no one if owed anything if like with out putting in there own effort to achieve it. So it's something you should look at only you and you only make the choice in life to become who ever you want to be and what ever life throws at you only you can change it. So be more selfish and make your own life for your self wich isn't a bad thing. It's the most strongest. You will then stope giving people the power to use others as an escape form what they do wrong it's basically showing them that you will not give up your own self woth to someone that didn't deserve it an that will be the only way to really help them showing them that it's wrong and they will then realise they are Wrong because they will loose the one thing that they had that made them feel loved and they might then see the wrong in using the only person that loved them. And if will help help them become a better person by loosing the best thing that they ever had.