Post by halemmerich on Jun 7, 2017 19:18:02 GMT
Hi, I wonder if you can help me: I'm asking here as a concerned friend because one of my closest female friends mentioned something in passing today to me and it's made me feel uneasy so I want your opinion.
We were trading funny stories about sex and talking about it kind of intellectually. She mentioned how she's very upfront about what she wants from her husband, knows what she likes and how she wants it then she mentioned "if we're doing something I don't like I'll just say this isn't working for me, I can't fake it, it's just not in me to pretend! Sometimes he'll go 'too bad it's working for me' and I'll just think to myself I'm not doing that again"
Is it me or is that NOT normal?
I didn't think anything of it at the time I just said I wouldn't do that I'd have to stop if my partner didn't like something. Ever since the conversation though I've felt physically sick and anxious, I thought I was ill, but I'm not I feel really worried about her.
We were trading funny stories about sex and talking about it kind of intellectually. She mentioned how she's very upfront about what she wants from her husband, knows what she likes and how she wants it then she mentioned "if we're doing something I don't like I'll just say this isn't working for me, I can't fake it, it's just not in me to pretend! Sometimes he'll go 'too bad it's working for me' and I'll just think to myself I'm not doing that again"
Is it me or is that NOT normal?
I didn't think anything of it at the time I just said I wouldn't do that I'd have to stop if my partner didn't like something. Ever since the conversation though I've felt physically sick and anxious, I thought I was ill, but I'm not I feel really worried about her.
