Do i stay in abusive relationship at 24 weeks pregnant?

No, you are not in a safe environment at all.
Your partner sounds like a very abusive, violent man. He also sounds very dependent on drinking.
I know this because my dad is too, an alcoholic and when he drank it would change him massively.

Being pregnant and being in this abusive relationship is not healthy or safe for your or your baby. You need to get out before he starts being violent towards you. If he can break your personal belongings that is abuse at its finest, and it won't be long before he starts to hurt you.

I know this because my boyfriend would break my things, and my phones. And then the violence progressed and became towards me.
I've been told to reach out to a DV Hotline, ring one closest to your area and speak up. They'll protect you and your unborn child.

You don't deserve this, and remember it's not your fault.

In my opinion, professional help doesn't change an abuser, they have to want to change for themselves but first of all regognise the behaviour he is showing isn't acceptable. Which I highly doubt he'll say to himself.
Professional help won't do any good for him, especially if he drinks quite a lot.

I've tried asking my boyfriend to go for professional help, he says he doesn't need it and tells me his behaviour is acceptable.

Speak up, your not alone and keep posting here as much as you need.
Take care of yourself and your little one.

Hi Sarah-

I'm glad you shared your thoughts and concerns.

Your boyfriend's actions sound scary. The way he is treating you is not okay and it is not your fault.

You should never have to feel afraid of your significant other, or wonder what will happen next. Someone who cares for you will not damage your property or make you feel afraid. I agree with A, that in the future, instead of damaging your things, your boyfriend may be hurting you. Unfortunately, abuse always tends to get worse over time. It may start out with yelling, then a little shove here and there, then progress.

I would suggest calling a domestic violence hotline, as the others suggested. You don't have to give your name or identify yourself in any way. Many times the person who answers the phone may have been in an abusive situation herself, and understands.

There are so many resources out there to help you. Sometimes a DV center can pick you up at your home/apartment and bring you to a safe place. They have places you can stay to be safe. They can also help you with groceries, and getting back on your feet. At the DV center in my area, lawyers who are caring and competent will come and meet with any women who wants advice (for free).

When you use your computer or phone to access this website or to call a DV hotline, please delete your browser history/cookies, and/or recent calls. Many times men who are abusive will invade their partner's privacy (e.g. go through their phone, look at a computer's history).

I left my boyfriend when I was about 14 wks pregnant. He was verbally abusive and somewhat physically abusive. He knew exactly how to push my buttons, and I was afraid of him. Around the time I became pregnant, he threatened to beat me up. I knew I had to leave to protect myself and my child. It was really difficult, because I felt a bond with him because of our child. Thankfully, my family had an inkling of what was happening, and they asked if I wanted to move home. My mom suggested I contact the local DV center. I didn't really want to, but I decided to and they helped me so much. I began to learn about domestic violence. I learned about the warning signs of someone who is abusive (I didn't know there were any warning signs!), I learned about the cycle of violence and why it can be so hard sometimes for women to leave. I was able to meet with an attorney who helped me with the legal questions I had. I was able to start healing.

Stay safe. You know your boyfriend the best and how to stay safe when you are around him. Sometimes it is ok to act as if everything is ok when you are around him (even if in your heart you are feeling many different emotions). Don't hesitate to post again . . . everyone here is wonderful.

My situation: My abusive husband showed his abuse towards our middle daughter Crissy. Crissy is so like me, she is outgoing and bubbly, and speaks her mind. I believe that is why he targeted her. She reminds him so much of me.

So, all I'm pointing out is that your guy will target your children at any point. Right now he is targeting the child in your womb. Can you imagine what he will do if the child reminds him of you?