Contacted after 10+ years? Dec 1, 2018 5:37:08 GMT
Post by on Dec 1, 2018 5:37:08 GMT
I'm just wondering if anyone else has been contacted by their ex after a very long period of time. I only went out with this guy for about 9 months. He was a narcissist, and very blatant about it too, and a control freak. He got violent early on, maybe 3-4 months in. I never reported it and no one ever knew because he only only hit me where it would be covered by my clothes. When I had a pregnancy scare and he wanted to talk about abortion and I said I could never do that, he was furious. Thankfully it was only a scare and I was just late. I broke it off with him about a month and a half later, and he didn't take it well. He was fuming, and so angry I was afraid he was going to hurt me, but my sister was in the house so I think he thought better of it. I moved out of state shortly after, changed my number and never heard from him again. I haven't
even thought about him in at least 10 years. I just moved on and I thought I was fine.
Two days ago I got a message from him on Facebook. Telling me he recently moved to a town nearby. He wanted to know if I'd be interested in meeting up to catch up. I asked him what he was thinking messaging me, and I told him to never contact me again. He messaged me again the yesterday talking about how he's a different person now, etc. So I blocked him. I don't know how he found me. My last name isn't even the same. But he did. I made everything on my FB page private, but I realized my employer was public on my profile before so he may know where I work.
It's been so long and I don't think he's going to come looking for me after all this time, and I'm trying not to worry, but I'm really freaked out by this. I'm having trouble concentrating at work because I keep looking out the window. I had a nightmare last night about him and I just can't calm my nerves. All these memories are coming up. I never thought they would after so many years. I'm just not sure how to deal with this