Post by mikeythomas76 on Sept 21, 2021 19:40:02 GMT
Im not sure what i need ti write here but im a 45 yo guy that has been in a relatio ship with my childs mother for 20yrs. During this tine we have had good and bad times but most recently times have been hard. Im ex british army and recently tly diagnosed with PTSD which has escaleated into severe depression and anxiety.
The relationship with my ex started to deteriorate a few years ago due to her infidelity and alcohol consumption.
Our days and nights deteriorated into drunken abuse and irrational allegations from her. I tried to rationalise her behaviour because i loved her and she was the mother of my 2 children but unfortunately it became intolerable however i percivered for a long time.
Things got that bad that i jad tp statt recording her behavior and the physical attacjs on me because i was worried that no one wpuld beleive me. In the end her own mother reported her social services for her drinking. Because my daughter called her to tell her that my partner was truing to throw A tv at me.
Now since this incident in february i jave not been able to see my children because somehow this has been turned on me and ive been listed as the perpetrator of DV.
All services are refusing to view the foitage i have which clearly shows that im the victim. There interpretation of this is that these videos are manipulative and yet another form of my control.
Is there anyone that can give me any advice as to how i can bring DV charges against my ex