Post by jeannie812 on Jun 3, 2017 4:47:11 GMT
Weird. I got a letter in the mail from my brother-in-law today. It contained a scrap piece of paper and he wrote Rhu. Nothing else in envelope but this scrap piece of paper. I confronted him. I said I got his letter in mail today, and I find it creepy. He said What mail? I said US Mail. He said I don't know what you mean. I said it has your name on envelope, and it's addressed to me. He said I don't know what you mean. I said We are done here.
He took the time to put his return address sticker on envelope to make sure I know it's him. and then he plays dumb to try to deny it. He took the time to gather up three stamps to make sure he had enough postage. he is the only stamp collector in the family! If it wasn't him, the other "person" would have used one stamp.
I believe that Rhu means Really hate you. He doesn't like it that me and my sister talk on phone. He is so controlling, that me and my sister have to jump off phone when she sees his car pulling in, so he won't know we are on phone.
The letter is postmarked May 30. That was the day I called my sister and he answered the phone. The minute he found out it was me he got all pissed off. I said I'm sorry if it's not a good time. He bellowed "It's NEVER a good time". Then he took the time to gather stamps, get an envelope, put his return address sticker on it, addressed it to me, get it to the post office to send it out that day. And, my sister never had a clue. Of course I am speculating about the specifics, but that was the day it was postmarked, and that was the day he bellowed at me on phone. It was the day before my sister's surgery, and that is why I was calling.
My sister is still in hospital recovering from the surgery. My brother-in-law called me today from the hospital's waiting room, cause the phone in the waiting room allows out-going calls. The phone in my sister's room only allows in-coming calls. He said she wants to talk to me, she is feeling better after pain killer. I said I would and I did call sis, but, while I had my brother-in-law on phone I confronted him about that letter. Which I already went into, and he just lied and lied. I told him that I won't say anything to her about the letter.
I didn't tell him that to protect him. I won't worry my sister when she is in a frail state. she just had surgery!
I really believe my brother-in-law has some weird dark side to him. I wonder if he even blacks out when he does crazy stuff.
Years ago he tried to run my sister off the road. He can get out and come and go as he pleases, but she better stay home. One night he had his usually plans to go out, and my sister told him she was attending a dinner at her friends house. He didn't like it that she was going without him. She stood up to him and told him that she can get out and go too. That night she was driving home, and he caught up with her on the road, and he tried to run her off the road. She didn't know who it was at first.
She was stopped at a stop light. It was dark and rainy fall night. A car pulls up behind her at the light and turned on the brights. It blinded my sister. The light turned green and my sister proceeded through the light, and pulled over, to let this other car pass. The other car stopped right next to her car. So my sister was stuck in the parking lane. She sped up, the other car sped up. She slowed down, the other car slowed down. Then she just started driving fast to shake off this other car. Keep in mind she is driving in the parking lane. Piles of leaves are in the parking lane. It's dark, raining, and she is driving through piles of wet leaves. She was terrified. At first the other car matched her speed, keeping her stuck in the parking lane. Finally the other car sped off. My sister recognized the back end of the other car. It was her husband's car. He was punishing her because she didn't obey, and stay home. Cause he is the ONLY one who is allowed to get out and go. He was pulling in the garage when she got home. She told him if he ever does that again that she will go straight to the police. He said it was an error in judgement, and he didn't want to talk about it anymore. Did he have an anger black-out that night too?
I also believe that he is trying to scare me. I think he is crazy. I plan to take this letter to the police after the weekend.
Today I was shaking when I looked at that letter. I thought my brother-in-law has lost his mind. My ears started ringing, and my face got red and blotchy. I thought omg, my blood pressure is UP. I had a chiropractor appt. today, while I was out, I stopped my my doctors office as a walk-in. I saw my doctors nurse who took my blood pressure and she said it's UP. I gave her the letter for her to make two copies. One copy for me, and one copy for my file at doctors office. The nurse also suggested I go to police. I got to my chiropractor appt, and I had him take my blood pressure, and it was still UP. Not as bad as earlier, but still not good. I asked chiropractor to send a copy of my blood pressure reading to my doctor, which he agreed.
Any thoughts?
He took the time to put his return address sticker on envelope to make sure I know it's him. and then he plays dumb to try to deny it. He took the time to gather up three stamps to make sure he had enough postage. he is the only stamp collector in the family! If it wasn't him, the other "person" would have used one stamp.
I believe that Rhu means Really hate you. He doesn't like it that me and my sister talk on phone. He is so controlling, that me and my sister have to jump off phone when she sees his car pulling in, so he won't know we are on phone.
The letter is postmarked May 30. That was the day I called my sister and he answered the phone. The minute he found out it was me he got all pissed off. I said I'm sorry if it's not a good time. He bellowed "It's NEVER a good time". Then he took the time to gather stamps, get an envelope, put his return address sticker on it, addressed it to me, get it to the post office to send it out that day. And, my sister never had a clue. Of course I am speculating about the specifics, but that was the day it was postmarked, and that was the day he bellowed at me on phone. It was the day before my sister's surgery, and that is why I was calling.
My sister is still in hospital recovering from the surgery. My brother-in-law called me today from the hospital's waiting room, cause the phone in the waiting room allows out-going calls. The phone in my sister's room only allows in-coming calls. He said she wants to talk to me, she is feeling better after pain killer. I said I would and I did call sis, but, while I had my brother-in-law on phone I confronted him about that letter. Which I already went into, and he just lied and lied. I told him that I won't say anything to her about the letter.
I didn't tell him that to protect him. I won't worry my sister when she is in a frail state. she just had surgery!
I really believe my brother-in-law has some weird dark side to him. I wonder if he even blacks out when he does crazy stuff.
Years ago he tried to run my sister off the road. He can get out and come and go as he pleases, but she better stay home. One night he had his usually plans to go out, and my sister told him she was attending a dinner at her friends house. He didn't like it that she was going without him. She stood up to him and told him that she can get out and go too. That night she was driving home, and he caught up with her on the road, and he tried to run her off the road. She didn't know who it was at first.
She was stopped at a stop light. It was dark and rainy fall night. A car pulls up behind her at the light and turned on the brights. It blinded my sister. The light turned green and my sister proceeded through the light, and pulled over, to let this other car pass. The other car stopped right next to her car. So my sister was stuck in the parking lane. She sped up, the other car sped up. She slowed down, the other car slowed down. Then she just started driving fast to shake off this other car. Keep in mind she is driving in the parking lane. Piles of leaves are in the parking lane. It's dark, raining, and she is driving through piles of wet leaves. She was terrified. At first the other car matched her speed, keeping her stuck in the parking lane. Finally the other car sped off. My sister recognized the back end of the other car. It was her husband's car. He was punishing her because she didn't obey, and stay home. Cause he is the ONLY one who is allowed to get out and go. He was pulling in the garage when she got home. She told him if he ever does that again that she will go straight to the police. He said it was an error in judgement, and he didn't want to talk about it anymore. Did he have an anger black-out that night too?
I also believe that he is trying to scare me. I think he is crazy. I plan to take this letter to the police after the weekend.
Today I was shaking when I looked at that letter. I thought my brother-in-law has lost his mind. My ears started ringing, and my face got red and blotchy. I thought omg, my blood pressure is UP. I had a chiropractor appt. today, while I was out, I stopped my my doctors office as a walk-in. I saw my doctors nurse who took my blood pressure and she said it's UP. I gave her the letter for her to make two copies. One copy for me, and one copy for my file at doctors office. The nurse also suggested I go to police. I got to my chiropractor appt, and I had him take my blood pressure, and it was still UP. Not as bad as earlier, but still not good. I asked chiropractor to send a copy of my blood pressure reading to my doctor, which he agreed.
Any thoughts?
Let me sleep!!! and he says, Well they asked for you...