Post by Debz on Feb 2, 2017 23:03:54 GMT
Hello
I have posted on here in the passed and Youve all really helped me !! I was with my husband for 9 years he never hit me but he drank ,did drugs and mentally abused me , he mad me believe I was crazy. I had a nervous break down whilst with him. We have a son age 6.
Last January I finally got the courage to leave him. The last year has been tough but Iv manage to get my family home back for me and my son , sort my mental health out , got my self a car , I pay my own Morgage and my business is doing really well. My son see's his dad twice a week and me and his dad are cival.
(Social servies have never been in involved be before ) Well out the blue yesterday I had a phone call from first response (social services) saying that my ex was seen picking up drugs in a pub car park (handing over money to a car ) with my son there and he kept going to the toilet leaving my son in the bar. I feel sick to stomach. how could he do this ?i know he does cocaine but Iv never been able to prove it and his very good at lying. He was at that pub as well I no he was because my son told me so.
The social services said because it was an anomounous call and there was no proof as such they are not taking any further action. It's clearly true though why would some one report it? I went mad at his dad and his dynied it all! They wrang him today and he said it was all lies and it was a man from work he owed money to who he was giving cash too (bullshit ) there was also an incident last year wen my son told me he met daddy's friend on a car park and daddy gave him
Money !! . Again he denied it and said I was nuts and shouldn't be asking our son things like that! My son told me !!
I don't want my son going there anymore , Iv told him this too , he reckons it was me who wrang them ? Why would I do that ? Why would I risk having my child took off me ? He's threatend to take me to court to get full custody !! I no I'm a good mom our lives are better now , my sons been so much happier this last year it not been easy for him but I would do anything for him !
I have a supportive family & friends but I can't tell them about this , I feel so ashamed !! My anxiety is through the roof , I feel like all the feeling are coming back from when I was with him , his taking control of me , people are believing his lies. When will this end ? How do I stop him seeing his dad ,If there not going to take further action ? I feel so alone & scared that Il loose my son. I feel like he's just going to keep destroying me until theres nothing left. I feeling like packing a bag for me and my son and running. If only it was that easy .
I have posted on here in the passed and Youve all really helped me !! I was with my husband for 9 years he never hit me but he drank ,did drugs and mentally abused me , he mad me believe I was crazy. I had a nervous break down whilst with him. We have a son age 6.
Last January I finally got the courage to leave him. The last year has been tough but Iv manage to get my family home back for me and my son , sort my mental health out , got my self a car , I pay my own Morgage and my business is doing really well. My son see's his dad twice a week and me and his dad are cival.
(Social servies have never been in involved be before ) Well out the blue yesterday I had a phone call from first response (social services) saying that my ex was seen picking up drugs in a pub car park (handing over money to a car ) with my son there and he kept going to the toilet leaving my son in the bar. I feel sick to stomach. how could he do this ?i know he does cocaine but Iv never been able to prove it and his very good at lying. He was at that pub as well I no he was because my son told me so.
The social services said because it was an anomounous call and there was no proof as such they are not taking any further action. It's clearly true though why would some one report it? I went mad at his dad and his dynied it all! They wrang him today and he said it was all lies and it was a man from work he owed money to who he was giving cash too (bullshit ) there was also an incident last year wen my son told me he met daddy's friend on a car park and daddy gave him
Money !! . Again he denied it and said I was nuts and shouldn't be asking our son things like that! My son told me !!
I don't want my son going there anymore , Iv told him this too , he reckons it was me who wrang them ? Why would I do that ? Why would I risk having my child took off me ? He's threatend to take me to court to get full custody !! I no I'm a good mom our lives are better now , my sons been so much happier this last year it not been easy for him but I would do anything for him !
I have a supportive family & friends but I can't tell them about this , I feel so ashamed !! My anxiety is through the roof , I feel like all the feeling are coming back from when I was with him , his taking control of me , people are believing his lies. When will this end ? How do I stop him seeing his dad ,If there not going to take further action ? I feel so alone & scared that Il loose my son. I feel like he's just going to keep destroying me until theres nothing left. I feeling like packing a bag for me and my son and running. If only it was that easy .
