hello as some of you may know i have been in a lengthy battle to protect myself my kids from a violent and cruel abuser. for example, knocked 2yo unconscious with violence, damaged 8yo hearing with habitual violence, threatened me with a knife, another violent incident resulted in head injury to eldest, she committed fraud and contempt, stole and destroyed everything i owned, has denied contact with kids for 20 months. a psychological evaluation was made, she is a narcissist, i am fragile from a traumatic event.
just got the latest court decision, she keeps the kids with no provision for contact with me other than an 'amicable agreement' (ffs) i got fined 7000 euros.
this was the appeal. i can take it to the supreme court but have been advised against it and i know why. it is clear from the judgement that none of the evidence i submitted or my statement was even read. i was told from the start that she will win because she is french, and i am not. it is more than likely my fine would further increase.
my next move is to try and get the case in an english court although the costs so far have been over 30000 pounds and im flat broke. in french court there is no cross examination, no finding of fact, no verification of documents (she submitted fake docs) and apparently no laws. if i can get it in a situation where every detail is scrutinized there is a high probability the truth will emerge. but thats just fantasy for now.
you are right, hell is here right where i am right now. surprisingly i managed to contact my daughter by phone this evening and she is absolutely devastated. i cant begin to describe the pain in my heart for her.
ill just have to pick myself up again and keep trying
when i first fled for my life the abuser accused me of abduction. it went to court, she was told to keep away from us and never to attempt to punish me for running away in civil or criminal court. article 4 of the human rights act also prohibits any further trial on this matter.
in civil court the abuser managed to have me fined 7000 euros for running away.
the abuser took it to criminal court recently and i have been given a 6 month suspended sentence. this means all the abuser has to do is make another false allegation (there have been 2 so far that i know about) and they will come and lock me up.
i dont know how to process all this. the abuse is never ending.