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Post by Lizzie on Aug 2, 2016 0:43:55 GMT
Hi, I've recently separated from my husband, he assaulted me with his laptop and I ended up with a suspected fractured elbow and nerve damage in my arm from him holding my arm so tight he compressed the nerve. My 2 young children were present when he done it. Our 6 year old son is terminally ill and my husband has never shown him the love that he done with my daughter. He balled and shouted at my son, he made me feel that I was always moaning when I was wanting to talk about how I felt. He had an affair last year and she text him and he told me about it as if he had not done it. She knew very personal details about our family, her husband then sent a threatening text to my husband he contacted the police however did not pursue the matter. My wedding anniversary is coming up next week and I'm struggling emotionally, he has got a lawyer and stated that I moved out with the children however he actually made us homeless as he refused to leave the family home.
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karen
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Post by karen on Aug 2, 2016 14:26:29 GMT
Hi Lizzie..I am so sorry your husband is being horrible to you. What he is doing is WRONG..it is abuse and it is assault and not the way I believe people should treat those they claim to love.
My first thought to you is if you are comfortable..call a National Domestic Violence Hotline..you can remain anonymous..no one has to know who you are or where you are. They can help you to figure out your next step. They are kind, non-judgemental, and good. Depending on what country you are in..there are refuges for battered women and their children. To help you get back on your feet. To be safe.
I don't know if you have family or friends that you can turn to..if so, try that. Your partner is ABUSIVE and he could hurt you and your children more. By leaving for now..you can at least be safe and start to sort out all that has happened. I am not surprised that he didn't leave. I am sure he is in charge of your money, your house..he probably is in control of everything. If you can't leave..at least call the hotline. You can talk to a person who can help you figure out the next step. You can even start counselling to figure this out.
I am so sorry this is happening. Anniversaries are supposed to be happy times..not wondering why he hurts you so much!
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Post by veronarodriguez on Feb 8, 2017 9:52:37 GMT
I am so sorry to hear about your situation Lizzie. You should contact a legal attorney as soon as possible as he has left you homeless with your kids. You can get even free legal help though the Internet, there are many attorneys who even provide on-line consultations, such as Bechara Tarabay, www.societe.com/societe/monsieur-bechara-tarabay-343059028.html. Just dont delay this anymore as it will give him more chance and time to get away with it.
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